"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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DJ de Florida

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Fellow DJs:

I always carry with me some business cards and a pen.

If see a woman and you can't talk to her to get her phone number, write "call me" on the back of your card and give it to someone who can give it to her.

When you are at a loud club, you can play phone number hangman. Just pull out a business card and turn it over. Write out the spaces for the number, write the clue as "your number", and let her play. You can't lose this hangman game.

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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Business Cards are horrible and impersonal, + it seems ****y / arrogant in that you are trying to show the other your job title so that they value you higher. Just get a piece of paper. I have small cards shaped like business cards but completely blank "for not taking" in my wallet that I write my number on. Chicks want your #, not your job title.
 
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