Ways to get girls over to your place?

[jarobe]

What are some good ways to get girls to come over to your place?

I've been in a slump as far this goes for the longest time. I'm pretty good at meeting girls and staying in contact with them enough to get them to the first date phase. BUT I have a hard time asking them to come over...would appreciate some lines/patterns to get them over...even 'casually'.

So much of what is written on this forum appears to apply mainly to making moves on girls in clubs, parties, etc...or assumes you have no trouble getting them over. Most of the girls I know and the type I like rarely go out to clubs...so how to steer an evening after a night out?

Thanks...

P.S. My spot is pretty nice/pimpin. I have every confidence a chick would be floored if I could only get em over.

 

[Kaptain]

Ask them over.

 

[brocollie]

how simple

 

[Tomatoes]

Ok this is what i do most the time to get girls back to mine. Its very casual sutle and works a dream in winter. I ask the girl when we are out at the pub if she wants to come out with me for a joint (spliff). Ofc i dont do this in a public place so i will drive somewhere abit more sucluded. I dont let anyone smoke in my car not even me. So i insist that we smoke it outside. Being a girl she will generally get cold quickly. This is where you say if your cold we could go back to mine and smoke it there.

I have used this approach twice and both times it has worked. Ofcorse if you dont smoke then this wont apply so much but you can still see the thought process. You change the enviroment around you and her to help affect her discission making process.

 

[jarobe]

Originally posted by Tomatoes
Ok this is what i do most the time to get girls back to mine. Its very casual sutle and works a dream in winter. I ask the girl when we are out at the pub if she wants to come out with me for a joint (spliff). Ofc i dont do this in a public place so i will drive somewhere abit more sucluded. I dont let anyone smoke in my car not even me. So i insist that we smoke it outside. Being a girl she will generally get cold quickly. This is where you say if your cold we could go back to mine and smoke it there.

I have used this approach twice and both times it has worked. Ofcorse if you dont smoke then this wont apply so much but you can still see the thought process. You change the enviroment around you and her to help affect her discission making process.

I can see how this would be effective in the winter, thanks. The last few times I dropped girls off in my car during snowy months resulted in easy invites to their places....just a question of manipulating (and exploiting) the environment as you suggested. I should use this more often.

 

[MightyMate]

Lets watch movie at my place.
Let me show You something
**** i forgot something, come to my place for a moment.
Blah.. Dude its simple.