"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Ways to compliment a woman with words or actions to get her turned on

thedol

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Do you guys have any ways or methods to warm a girl up before you guys have even hooked up in the night for example?

Like messages or ways to compliment a woman to really make her feel special then when you actually see her maybe in the night or the day after she is really begging for it and you just have to say one word and she's wild
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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fckk i wish i could remember shtt ive said to chicks right now damn this is why i need to post more field reports and save notes like i used to....

when you've got something really good, texts are good cuz they can read it over and over

one time i told a hb7 (ok maybe she was a hb6 but she had a cute face) that i liked her personality and it made me wanna make her feel good.........oh man that was a good night


oh yeah and actions...pull her hair a lil when ur makin out....squeeze her inner thighs....man i shouldnt be tellin yall this **** ur gonna steal my moves then i cant use them anymore......that Drake song Best I Ever Had he used a couple of my lines in there now i cant say them cuz chicks will be like "oh ur just tellin me lines from that song" ****in Drake get ur crippled canadian ass back in the chair and fckk off
 

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I find that compliments usually work best when she already wants it. After I've fooled around with her a few times and she texts me or tells me that she's turned on just thinking about me etc.. then I'll allow myself to compliment her by text or whatever.

Never shower a woman with compliments if she's not giving you any. It'll give her a sense of superiority.
If you can't turn her on and make her want it without compliments, then you should skip compliments and work on your normal interaction with her.

For instance... if you haven't slept with a woman and you tell her that she's beautiful and that she turns you on, it's probably not going to make her come over and jump your bones unless she already wanted to before the text.
 

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Compliment her on ways she's not used to. If she's super hot, lay off the looks compliments, and tell her she's smart, or has a great personality. If she's not the best looking, find something about her that IS, and compliment that. Her eyes for instance, but only if you really mean it. I usually dont hand out too many compliments, but one chick had really nice eyes, and I told her, "I really like your eyes, they're so big and brown." then when she was blushing, I handed her my phone and got her number.

If its not 100% sincere, it wont work. I stay away from the "you are so hot..." kind of compliments." They sound fake, but girls still like to hear it. I find it means more to them if you dont ever complpiment them, bu tout of the blue sometime, you throw a really good sweet one. If she starts blushing and smiling, kiss her.
 

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If she's super hot, lay off the looks compliments, and tell her she's smart, or has a great personality.
So in other words lie to her?
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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horaholic

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Thats not what I said at all.

But yeah, I guess you could lie, but I prefer sincerity.
 

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