Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Ways to be LESS sexual?

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Crissco

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I have a problem with being tooo sexual around girls. Taking things to fast. Ive been told that numerous of times. Anyway to calm down my urges?
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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There's a fine line between SEXUAL and NEEDY.

The way to avoid crossing it is to show indifference about the outcome. For example, you can kino escalate with a girl and then walk away from her at the first sign of discomfort; or, hit on a girl on a ton and then start ignoring her. Confusion often translates as arousal, and an aroused girl will seek you out if she feels neglected.

The thing to avoid is creating an atmosphere where the girl feels PRESSURED; this will often scare them away. You need to demonstrate that you don't care if things work out with her or not; this will create a SAFE atmosphere for her to get flirty, touchy feely, etc.
 
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Came to realize the same thing bro. My problem is when I get into i get into it. I love women, love everything about them. Its like Pokemon, gotta catch em all lol.

Gotta figure out a way to be less needy I guess. Eventhough I have about 4 plates right now, still doesnt seem to curb my appitate lol.
 
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