Way too much blaming the women on this site.

[Infern0]

This is controversial but would you say that a so called BPD wouldn't act that way around Brad Pitt? A serial flake won't do that to Channing Tatum?

BPD's and NPD's know how to behave themselves, this is evident during the idealization phase.

NPD's I don't have much experience with but I was exclusive with a BPD for 9 months and still hook up.

The thing with BPD's is they are HIGHLY reactionary, so minor slips in your game that a regular woman would let slide, the BPD would be all over it. To be honest, I think idealization/devaluation is tied into attraction level, so i do think those suggested names would do better than most guys, however it's likely eventually the BPD would crash into deep depression at some stage with "i'm not worthy" mentality and then get paranoid Tatum was cheating and start cutting herself or something.

The thing is though this is where you have to prequalify. When I was head over heel for my BPD she destroyed me, these days I just see her for what she is, I still have a fondness for her but I won't tolerate any BS and she knows it so she behaves better.

Your behaviour and vibe does have an effect on them, but your frame has to be ridiculously tight and you can't give them an inch or they take a mile. You have to be ready to cut and run in an instant, but tbh such it is with all women. You also have to understand that their moods and weird behaviour isn't alays about you, most guys think the second they get a bit snippy that they are devaluing, which isn't true.

For the record, Angelina was suspected BPD in her younger days, and I tend to agree with that, however Brad has done alright, I think its a combination of her getting more mature, him being Brad pitt and therapy. But yes, it is possible,

As I say can't comment on NPD, I think the best you could do in that situation is keep them idealizing you, they can't love. BPD's do love but can turn it on and off.

 

[ImTheDoubleGreatest!]

Funny how they only behave like attention *****s around/to AFC's though, isn't it.

Not true. Girls will always test your strength. There are very few out there who won't. I notice it all the time. Thx to this site. But then it kinda pisses me off when I notice it even though it's only natural for them to do so. Aaaahhhh, the problems of being enlightened by the red pill. If only, if only........

 

[Infern0]

Not true. Girls will always test your strength. There are very few out there who won't. I notice it all the time. Thx to this site. But then it kinda pisses me off when I notice it even though it's only natural for them to do so. Aaaahhhh, the problems of being enlightened by the red pill. If only, if only........

The point I was trying to make Is that afc's see tests as "attention ***** games" guys who get it know that women test and don't care.

 

[Infern0]

lmao this is the selfrigteous(read:gaslit, blame-shifted) guy that just can't bear to hear men call a spade a spade when it comes to the nature of modern women:crackup:

Or it's someone who's lost all bitterness and doesn't react with sarcasm (defence mechanism) when he see's an opinion he doesn't understand or agree with.

It's ok, I understand many men are afraid of BPD's and the fact that they can pull out all that internal weakness that they are trying to cover up.

 

[Infern0]

yes we're all so BPD phobic here lol

You follow my calling out your sarcasm with more sarcasm, wonderful.

I don't recommend you take me on when it comes to this subject, you haven't the faintest tbh.

 

[TheMonkeyKing]

When faced with a challenge or difficult situation, we only ever have two choices:

1) Do something about it.
2) If nothing can be done, accept the situation.

The two most common threads of questioning herein:

a) Why is she behaving like this?
b) What should I do about it?

The answer to both questions is simple:

-It's not our job to understand why people act a certain way, nor is it usually our job to do anything about it. A lot of the time, there simply is no explanation; people act as a result of their own FREE WILL, which warrants neither blame nor judgement. The only action a man ever need take with regard to a woman is arrange definite dates and, if two offers are rejected, to leave her to her own devices until such time as she initiates interest again.

Have to agree with Infern0, there are far too many men with a b!tchy, butthurt attitude in the world which is absolutely counter-productive both on an individual and group level.