"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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way of finding out roughly where her IL is?

ukboy1

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Anyone know a reliable way to find out how high a girls IL is?
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Escalation. Whether it's hand holding, kissing, going for the date, getting her back to your place, sex or whatever. A girl will not go with the escalation if she is not interested in you.
 

GotED?

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The truth is, most of the time a woman DOESN'T EVEN KNOW what she feels or thinks about a man. Yet we try to FIGURE her out - as ANTI-DUMP says, this is a fruitless endeavor to get into the head of a woman.

You will only know when you do the following:

A. ASK FOR HER NUMBER
B. ASK FOR FIRST DATE
C. ASK FOR SECOND DATE
D. ASK FOR THIRD DATE

If you get that far, you know her IL is high.

Good luck.

Exodus
 

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Well we have sex 2-3 times a week and see each other 4 or 5 times?
 
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