"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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watt i wrote to my self today..

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Be in control of your thoughts, and your emotions. Don’t let the past repeat itself. When your not in a healthy relationship and you know its not right to be in it, end it and leave it. Don’t stay ever again in such situation for you shall make decisions upon a logic decision not your emotions/feelings. Don’t be with someone because you love them when things aren’t going the right way or make any decision based upon watt you feel/emotion. Learn to separate and control your thoughts/feelings and choose the right path based on watt you deserve, don’t blind yourself ever again emotionally.

We all know that we all have egos’ ****yness, pride, etc. It’s fine to feel that way, but don’t let that influence watt you do because sometimes you end up making the wrong choices. Learn to control the power of thought. When you have achieve that you shall be more in control of your life, your emotions, your choices in life, and not be afraid. This will separate you from everyone else, who cares watt others think. Let them drown, suffocate in their own emotional misery. If you find yourself going through the same chapter all over again(referring to my past relationship) then more power to you because you will not be afraid to walk away.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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I kinda needed to read something like this too... thanks ;) thouhg overcoming emotions isn't so easy...
 
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Yes. I know it isnt easy but in time you learn to endure/control your mind/thoughts/emotions. It's really a powerful/good feeling.

Took me almost 3 years. For some its a tough long process.
 
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Good post, just don't get why you keep putting watt in place of what. Its got the same number of letters so its not an abbreviation. Maybe its some kind of cool speak I don't get. Any ways, good post all the same.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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