***Wats Her Intention Behind This Question***

[Charm&Style]

This just randomly came into my head and i never bothered to ask about it...

Back then when i was sarging girls, They'd always make this one weird remark that kinda stompt me...

We be talking about something and randomly the girl would say "you should do/buy/or w.e with your 'girl friends' "

Or they would randomly ask how are your 'girl friends doin'.

they know i had a lot of female friends and that some of them liked me.

Anyways the girls that i were sarging who asked/told me these were intrested for a fact

But

What are they trying to get at when they use this...is it another sign of intrest

when i think too hard about it i go :crazy:

 

[T Money]

I don't understand the question.

They were probably trying to make conversation, that's what girls do when they're interested.

 

[Charm&Style]

my question is

im trying to get with a girl. shes intrested, im intrested..yada yada yada...

why do randomly along the way they try to crack up "girl friend" jokes when they know im trying to get with them.

They do that knowing i have a couple of chicks who like me, and refer to them as my "girl friends"

From one point i look at it, its like shes not intrested and trying to motivate me to go with those chicks that like me, yet i have no feeling for.

But from another view point i see it as her teasing me or some sh!t.

this doesnt happen a lot, just out of the blues shell throw a remark like that in.

 

[JesterX]

OK

If we switched this around and say for example a guy said to a girl (that knows she has alot of guy friends) "how are your boy friends doin?" It comes off as insecure and jealous to me. Something that is considered AFC around here.

So I'd pretty much say its the same for the girl and shes insecure that you might not be the only girl in her life and wants to make sure you arent with any of these other girls.

Which = Interest / High Interest

 

[Charm&Style]

OK



So I'd pretty much say its the same for the girl and shes insecure that you might not be the only girl in her life and wants to make sure you arent with any of these other girls.

Which = Interest / High Interest

IM NOT A GIRL


tanx bro, i was leaning that idea too.

 

[T Money]

Oh. Yeah, they're testing you. They want your balls in their mouth but they want to know if you want to dip them in. Just make them jealous, because they're setting themselves up for it. It will make them want you even more.