"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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itstough

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Today I was walking through the parking lot at work and a co-worker was sitting in his car. There is a woman who I like that works near me and my friend said she was also walking through the parking lot behind me and he said her friend that was walking with her tapped her on the shoulder and pointed over to me. She looked towards me when I had my back turned. They both kept walking and she looked at me again. Now why in the heck do woman do this behind your back? She will not talk to me even though we talked once and she was very friendly next time she acts like she does not know me. She will not make any eye contact either
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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It means absolutely nothing. It would mean just as much if she just saw you then ignored you like any other guy on the street. If you really want to know, go make an approach and see how it goes.

-Damian
 

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Could be anything. You coulda had 'kick me' on your back. Start a conversation and find out for sure.... If she's hot you'll only hate yourself later for not trying when you may have had the chance.
 
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