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danthemann

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k so earlier today my girlfriend and I were watching tv. well eventually we got going and i went down on her and all and as im eating her out i notice this is taking quite a while... i look up and there she was, looking at the tv.. and so i kept going until i looked up again and she was still watching tv... so i stopped and said "lets see how long the tv takes to get you off since thats obviously more interesting" and then i liad down next to her. then she says "what!? dont stop.... i wasnt watching tv...." obviously thats bs but whatever ha. anyways did i handle this right? cuz she got pretty upset afterwards and started crying about how she felt like an object or some crap cuz i was eating her out and i thought she was watching tv...
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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dude she is just having a ***** fit because you brought up the fact she wasnt enjoying it and didnt want to hurt your feelings
that my best guess
 

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Haha that's damn funny- I used to do the same thing in HS with my girlfriend.. I'd get caught watching Britney Spears on TV while she was blowing me.

Not really a big deal.. maybe you're not the sh!t at eating pvssy, it's not like most guys are at such a young age.

Anyways, take that negative energy (you flipping out on her, immature of course) and turn it into positive energy. Polish your tongue skills, be more sensual, tease your girl a little more.

She acted upset yes, because she didn't want to hurt your feelings as she may have not been as turned on as you thought she was.

Big f*cking deal.. that's what practice is for. She can wait.
 

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haha...reminds me of that blink 182 song...
anyways
Here are some of my thoughts:
1. She was bored.
2. You weren't good enough.
3. She might be bored of you eating her and wants more or to escalate to the next part faster.
4. She had something on her mind and happened to be looking at the tv.

As for your reaction...
I wouldn't have said what you said because girls are usually sensitive. And, how would she react to that positively? She would have apologized a lot and that would only be to make you feel better, or she would say you were horrible and you guys would be in a fight possibily. Next time, i would send her the same message without the words. Perhaps lift your head up and start doing something random. (pushing your finger into her stomach and making finger imprints...something random)..she'll get the picture or eventually ask what's going on...
 

I'm in the Mood

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You should have just said nothing and turned the tv off.
She was watching tv while you were eating her out, big deal dude...why is that such a negative thing?
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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You acted like a *****, a man would have turned the TV off.
 

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Or you could accept the fact that it gets boring watching someones head move around your crotch. Or at least that T.V. tends to be more visually entertaining.

If there is a TV in the room I'm in while I'm getting a BJ, I watch T.V. Even better if there is an Xbox. I glance down every once in a while, but otherwise I'm back to whatever else was distracting me. Sex is a little bit different, and I can see where a guy might get pissed if his woman is just laying dead watching the tube while he is humping away, but what the hell... I've been guilty of catching some of the Colbert Report while on the job. The fact is, I like to laugh and while I enjoy vagina, Stephen Colbert is more likely to make me laugh then that vagina queefing every once in a while.

It doesn't mean that I don't enjoy sex or oral or whatever -- It just means that I also like T.V.

To date, I haven't been ballsy enough to attempt the Xbox-sex combo. That may prove problematic. I'm predicting either the locust win or she tells me to **** off when I pick up a controller over her.

If you didn't want her watching T.V., you should have turned the T.V. off and asked her to watch you lick her vagina. Or, just don't go down on her.
 

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i stopped and said "lets see how long the tv takes to get you off since thats obviously more interesting"


Bad move. Don't let her see that you are upset and hurt. Either turn off the TV or put some porn on it.
 

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Bible_Belt said:
i stopped and said "lets see how long the tv takes to get you off since thats obviously more interesting"


Bad move. Don't let her see that you are upset and hurt. Either turn off the TV or put some porn on it.
Exactly!

Or, when she blows you, switch to ESPN.
 
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