"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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I'm referring to the change of tone of posts. First @Bible_Belt is saying I have a crappy outbound call center job, next he's worried about stealing xyz from the employer which doesn't add up for this type of work. I did not understand that.
 

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I'm referring to the change of tone of posts. First @Bible_Belt is saying I have a crappy outbound call center job, next he's worried about stealing xyz from the employer which doesn't add up for this type of work. I did not understand that.
You're a telemarketer. Your job sucks. Your coworkers are losers. I've had your job, so I know. Bragging that you fit in with these people is sad. You ought to be the best, it's not that hard compared to these people, and then you could get a better job. But that isn't happening when you focus you energy on screwing off at work.
 

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You're a telemarketer. Your job sucks. Your coworkers are losers. I've had your job, so I know. Bragging that you fit in with these people is sad. You ought to be the best, it's not that hard compared to these people, and then you could get a better job. But that isn't happening when you focus you energy on screwing off at work.
You can't look for another job while you are working at your desk though. If you are making an argument about "stealing employers time", then that would fall into it, just like any other activity that's not direclty related to the task you are donig, or reading "authorized" material from that office if there is a slow day, between the calls.

Oh by the way, I don't "steer" at the smartphone screen. You are talking about an occasional peek of a running video when nobody's looking. Videos are treated much the same way as if was an actual real person. Just like you wouldn't steer at a lady working out in a Gym that has tight yoga pants and is doing squats while you are in adjacent machine doing your own thing, but might peek around, the videos are also treated a similar way. If you look too much at those videos, then it's that grey-zone of feeling creepy looking at those types of videos, because you it's not how you would behave in real life, say, if you were in a Gym. or space where there was a lady twerking around by herself (ie within a Gym), etc...
 
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