"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Watching Blueprint Decoded...not impressed

Jamal

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I just watched the Blueprint and to tell you the truth I was not overly impressed. Everyone is saying that this is the best product but I just didn't see that. I mean probably its because I watched Flawless Natural first and then this but I also realize that the blueprint just makes some of the stuff confusing by using big words. Don't get me wrong some of these stuff was great like the first dvd with social conditioning and being unreactive to stuff but that really it. I wasn't able to watch 4 pillars of reality because when i downloaded the torrent, some of the parts just cut off. If you guys could tell me about what he says about how people should act, that would be great. Anyways, I just wanted to know your opinions about this becasue to tell you the truth I believe Tim's Flawless Natural stuff is so easy to comprehend and he talks about the main points for having inner game and not need to say it in 19 dvds, which I think was ridiculous. A lot of Tyler's stuff could be explained in just 3 dvds and I got bored at listening to some of the stuff as well. Overall I thought this was a good product even though 4 days of this stuff wasn't necessary. I right now printed out notes from this because I feel like some of the stuff i will forget lol.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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sjoasja

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watch it again.. there's some much value in the program.. No way he could get it all onto 3 dvd's.
He talks about the pillars of strong identity

1. Know who you are
2. Know your values
3. Knows your personal boundaries
4. Know how you expect people how to act

Those four are the foundation of a strong reality.
 
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