Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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watching a beta in action

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I don't watch much TV but I happened to catch this show below late tonight and found it interesting to watch for the male/female dynamic. This guy gets set up on a faux date(he thinks it's real). The guy at first glance may look like a alpha, playa type of dude, but because he's in the presence of this hot girl, he becomes completely beta and fails every **** test thrown at him. It's kind of fun to watch because once you learn the basics of game, all this stuff clicks together and you see how hot women are allowed to control the frame, how they throw **** tests and how men don't pass them and demonstrate lower value. This guy's "date" was one big **** test from beginning to end and he failed from second one. Everything from his body posture to his game to his frame is a perfect example of what to avoid when dealing with a very attractive girl. Thing is, he probably isn't a hopeless beta, he probably does fine with 7s and 8s, but when thrown a real hottie, he just completely lost his balls. Pretty damn funny...

Fast-forward to about 2:00 minutes in.

http://www.bet.com/video/284690
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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lol. what show is this?

i freaking love tv. what WILL they come up with next?

i think you're giving this guy too much credit to say that he does well with 7s and 8s. he looks like he's above average looking, but his game is so far below average that i dont think it'd be a stretch to say he struggles with 5s and 6s....

he isnt in control at any point at all during the entire video... and he's just BORING.

this poor guy needs a lot of work. but in the competitive world with which we've all been presented, i don't really feel bad for him. i feel glad for myself and everyone else here that is leaps and bounds ahead of the masses of guys that are like this.

but, still entertaining and interesting perspective.
 

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"A real man, one that can take daddy's place." (minutes 7-8)

No thanks. Next.
 

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(JJ) said:
lol. what show is this?

i freaking love tv. what WILL they come up with next?

i think you're giving this guy too much credit to say that he does well with 7s and 8s. he looks like he's above average looking, but his game is so far below average that i dont think it'd be a stretch to say he struggles with 5s and 6s....

he isnt in control at any point at all during the entire video... and he's just BORING.

this poor guy needs a lot of work. but in the competitive world with which we've all been presented, i don't really feel bad for him. i feel glad for myself and everyone else here that is leaps and bounds ahead of the masses of guys that are like this.

but, still entertaining and interesting perspective.
He probably did about as good as he can do given what he was up against. There was just no way he could break through her powerful frame. She was being a true Alpha female. I'm sure if was with a 7 who had a much weaker frame, he'd do alright.

I'm trying to think, if it was James Bond who was walking up to a woman for the first time in this scenario while she is getting massage treatment. What would he have done? The woman asked him to sit down because she didn't want to strain her neck supposedly. An alpha guy would never have sat. He might have found a charming way to get her to sit up and give a proper introduction. Or maybe he would've told the masseuse to stop and he would've taken over what she was doing from the get go before waiting for her to ask him.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Come on man, this isn't serious stuff from which someone can learn something. First of all, super hot women I know aren't like that, they aren't like that at all. It's the avarage woman that is the real demanding *****.

Second, any guy would have said: ''who do you think you are? The queen? I'm not your servant. You better give me a massage or you're not getting anything''.

This proves to me how far away Sosuave is from the real thing. Even I can see that and I never had a girlfriend. So this doesn´t represent women, this doesn´t reprepresent men, responding correctly will not get you laid (or I would have had HB 10's all over me) and to conclude: this is worthless.
 

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the dude with the flowers asks him if he's her assistant, and his response is 'nah, nah nah, not necessarily'. WTF is wrong with this guy ? I'd be like **** no I'm not her assistant.
 

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alot of hot girls i know actually act like that.

I used to be just like this guy. probably did well with 7-8's but when a real 9+ came along i would just break down and get owned. after a while i just stopped giving a sh1t and treated them all the same.

I probably would of just ate the grapes myself and told her when i was finished they would be warm so she could just wait.

the mountain dew crap, probably would have just drank it and made up some excuse that i thought she was telling me how to make it taste good.

i've actually dealt with a few stalkers and no matter what you really say unless u threaten them, they always come back. The best thing to do is to call the police. They literally always come back one way or another.
 
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