"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Watch this!

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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the fvck? Explain a little could you?
 

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Ah wow. =(

Puts things into perspective when you're having a hard day.


Also shows you that when odds are against you most people have such a strong instinct to survive.

It's a very beautiful thing.


And yes, I'd bang the hell out of her.
 

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The Juan and only said:
the fvck? Explain a little could you?
Gosh this place is infested with bitter stupid juveniles!

nothing to explain dlLdo, just watch it.. thats it.
 

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It is customary and even courteous to explain. Some people are at work and do not want to click on a link that will take them to a video of a girl being f*cked up the ass by a baboon since that might get them fired.

Not so juvenile now is it?
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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ducaro

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NickBe said:
It is customary and even courteous to explain. Some people are at work and do not want to click on a link that will take them to a video of a girl being f*cked up the ass by a baboon since that might get them fired.

Not so juvenile now is it?
Well, I don't know about that, at least you have a better way of communicating than your friend.
 
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