"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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watch this video when a chic is messing with you

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http://youtube.com/watch?v=8PKndk7vu-E

although it seems to be a scripted short film, the way this guy reacts is EXACTLY the way you shoudl react when a woman messes with you.

now, i'm not saying you should go f*ck her mom. but i am saying that you need to remain calm, collected and immediately start viewing her as having next to no value to you.

anyway, i thought this was a great little skit of a man beating a woman at her own game.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Sometimes the best response is the wordless gaze where you lean back and look at her differently then you normally would like "And who are you exactly?" all said with your eyes & posture. Do not tolerate disrespect.
 
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Off the chain!

Very funny!!
 
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I don't think you're shallow... I think you've got something wrong. I mean you were just.. emotionally completely disconnected. I mean that whole orgasm thing... I mean it's not my fault you can't come. I've tried everything, we've done everything, you're just emotionally frigid - you're physically frigid.

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You can REALLY throw a woman off by not reacting in a way that she expects you to react. One of the best weapons in my arsenal!
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Her: So you'll stop.

Him: Yes, I won't have sex with your mom.

Her: Promise?

Him: Promise.
 
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