"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Watch out for the crazies.
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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Fly By Night
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She stabbed a man in the back, but that's not a good enough reason for the police to show up.
LoveTheLight
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She slashed a cops hand? If she was in the US she would have been tazed and/or shot lol
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In the UK we are soft with crime.LoveTheLight said:
Man hacks into the US Pentagon, gets a slap on the wrist because he suffers from autism.
Man wanted in Jordan for crimes there, gets to remain here under Police surveillance.
This woman is a lunatic and had this been the other way around, it would have been all over the news for days, weeks and months.
One rule for women and another for men.
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
VladPatton
Master Don Juan
Goddamn, what a fųckin psycho! At any time hath you gents find yourselves in a strange woman's bed, nude, and you see a knife, or feel cold metal on your bare skin, please, do yourselves a favor and fųcking run like all living hell out of her apartment. Don't think with the wrong head.