Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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"Watch her actions, not her words" yes, but to what extent?

jhonny9546

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Don't listen to what She says, watch what She does

Since I've been a part of you guys here, this has been the best advice ever.
I'm not here to say the reasons why it works, but it has helped me not only with women, but also with all the other people in my life.

Maybe you went out and the girls looked at you, and she noticed it, so at home she'll act a bit silly and say something to you, and then you understood that you don't have to stay there listening to what she says but what she does (maybe you'll have great sex or she'll simply be even more attached and feminine with you).
This was just an example, but there will be many other situations.

The fact is that there will be many times when what she says could be disrespectful, offend you, and you have clarified your limits and she won't do it anymore because she knows the consequences, but the fact remains that she will always be there to tell you things that bother you. For you it's a nuisance.

You understand the women's game, but you don't like to put up with this part of their "saying" at all, and it's a real nuisance.
In committed relationships, to varying degrees, it happens with all women.

It's that feeling where you're happy you understand how women work, but you're not happy that she says those things, that she has her tantrums, her anxieties...

It would be helpful to share your thoughts, perspective and behavior on this subject
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Been on here for over a decade and let me tell you a girls word is meaningless half the time that's why dating overall especially online dating is very overrated!
 

jhonny9546

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Been on here for over a decade and let me tell you a girls word is meaningless half the time that's why dating overall especially online dating is very overrated!
They're.
For the context, we're talking more about that in an LTR
 

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This advice is not just with women, but useful in a leadership or coworker/community position. Too often or not, there’s a lack of sensitivity and empathy on our part, we gotta be assertive with some soft skills to balance it all out.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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