"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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wat to do when dissed.

S-lemond

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there is this HB8-9 that is obsessed with the other country guy.....so she is walking down the hall way, and then all the guys are telling him that she was wondering when he was going to ask her out...he was like ok ill do it...but not right now!..........then some smart ass says hey man well E_ze likes her.....and calmly im respond by saying " nal man its nothing like that" the country guy says well im going to tell her that E_ze wants to go with her.......so i approch her in attempt to warn her about what is going to happen, i say" blah is about to tell you a lie, im order to cover up his shyness in asking you out!( while i am saying that, he is calling her over to him) she then moves me out of the way, and continues up to talk to him, I GOT DISSED!......he tells her and I leave...pondering what just happened...........next class, she is in it with me, she turned around to talk to me, and i said..." turn around" she then smiled (becuase she taught i was joking) so she flung her hair on the desk...i pushed it off, she turned around....i gave her a look of discust! then i started flirting with some other girl, and HB8-9 tryed to talk to us, and i said dont talk to me!, she then was drawing all over me, she wanted me!, but then i paired up with someone in a group.....and just watched her sit there by herself(the day before we were in a group together)
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Jay-X

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man, you acted pretty immature when dealing with the situation... why did you go up to her et cetera? you could have simply ignored him and let things go... if a girl is attracted to you, she's not going to dislike you just because she thinks you are attracted too... actually, she would be even more interested
 

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oh bra! dont be taking no un dissing ya like, be nuts init clart!
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Look at all these Don Juans telling you whats what!!:crackup: :crackup: :crackup: :crackup: :down:
 
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