"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Wat should I DO??? Need help making up my mind

snoop8

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ok, i got this girlfriend, she says im the first guy to kiss her, and shes a virgin. ok well now i know THIS OTHER GIRL, well she told me she literally wanted to FVCK wit me! ok so obviously i said yea, come over lol, but ok, after a lil thinking, i started feeling kinda guilty about me cheatin on my girlfriend, the horny girl lol she already knows im wit her, and shes like i aint no stupid *****, im gonna keep it real wit u, wat does she mean wit that? lol im confused! should i go fvck wit that girl or wat??? :confused: and wat about my girlfriend? should i just go and cheat on her? i feel even more guilty since i think this girl really likes me.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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this is a personal decision. personally, i only know one, maybe two girls i WOULDNT cheat on...but if u really like the chick ur dating (crazy...hasnt even kissed? man i dunno about this girl...) then just play c&f on the flirt. keep kinda giving her ur affection but whenever she wants to move things up smile and remind her you're taken. u'll drive her out of her mind trying to get you, and when the relationship with ur girlfriend goes sour, u have a backup girlfriend!

my favorite technique.
 

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ummm yea i guess ur right! but wat if my girlfriend and me last a long time? how can i keep the other one for that long??? and i need to get some pvssy!! lol how can i get at least my girlfriend to give in? shes a virgin! and she already told me she wants to stay like that till shes 18 or 19 or married! OHH YEA!!! the girl that wants to fvck, she has a boyfriend too! lol
 

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ah a boyfriend? haha that compicates it a bit more. well in the end its a moral decision. if u think u can slowly coax ur girlfriend into putting out (u'll really have to lay on the c&f) then stay with her and avoid the other chick. but if u dont see much of a future and think u can take this chicks boyfriend ifu absolutely had to, then at least u'll get a player badass rep for cheating.

:D and that can be priceless
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Crazy kids with their crazy VD


:D


It's your own decision. If you want to break someone's heart so you can get rid of some of your sperm for some ***** then be my guest. It's not worth it. You'll end up kicking yourself in the ass later on.
 

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AHHHHHHHHHHH man u made me think about it again lol, MAN LIFE IS SO HARD lol i guess i wont cheat on her :(
 

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MAN LIFE IS SO HARD lol:(
lol.

It will be if you continue to be so dumb.


If you like your girlfriend don't cheat on her. If you'd rather some cheap slut p*ssy then don't stay with her and go have some fun. It's that simple. There's no point being greedy and having both because it'll cause YOU more hassle in the end.
 

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but wat about the pvssy?? man lol but yea i really like my girlfriend for some reason lol shes not even cute and she has small boobs, i dont know y i like her so much lol
 

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I wouldn't cheat. Yeah right.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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hmm i would try to talk to both of them tell my girlfriend the situation and find out if we could consider being together but not exclusive i.e she could see who she wanted and i could too but you could still see each other if she ain't cool with that i would respect that and talk to the other girl and tell her the situation or you could just forget it and never talk to the horny girl again
 

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Originally posted by Chosen1
hmm i would try to talk to both of them tell my girlfriend the situation and find out if we could consider being together but not exclusive i.e she could see who she wanted and i could too but you could still see each other if she ain't cool with that i would respect that and talk to the other girl and tell her the situation or you could just forget it and never talk to the horny girl again

Bad idea in my opinion. Just stop cheating.
 

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yea i aint gonna cheat nomore, i guess lol, shes a nice girl, i dont think she deserves to have her first boyfriend to cheat on her.
 

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Originally posted by snoop8
yea i aint gonna cheat nomore, i guess lol, shes a nice girl, i dont think she deserves to have her first boyfriend to cheat on her.
well thats gentleman like.

plus u can always run light c&f on the other chick and safe her for later. absence makes the heart grow longer, or something like that.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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I'm gonna make your mind up for you. You're making fun of your girlfriend because she has small boobs, and you're questioning why you like her soo much. She must not mean a whole lot to you. Break up with her and THEN have sex with the wh0re. No cheating and you get what you want. Simple as that :D

If you really cared about your girlfriend, you wouldn't consider cheating. Save you and her from the bad relationship and break up.
 

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but i dont wanna break up wit her! i been tryin to get her for like 2 years and i finally got her!
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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