"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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DJ Suave

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here's the score... had a first date with a lady last friday and all went so well i ended da night with some "under cover loving". She started all of this.. kiss, touching n den everythin else.. anyway she texted me the day after n said she would c me on tuesday.

On tuesday she told me she couldnt make it but said she would let me no wen she was able 2 make it. I have not heard from her since although i sent a brief txt to see how she was yesterday (friday) still no response!!

Should i write it off or call her in a few days?????
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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nishbuk

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I'm no expert, but if it was me, and I wanted to date the girl, She'd get one call, and that's it. (And that's only after a few days). One call if she picks up, you make a date, and you tell her where you guys are going. If she cancels, or is iffy about it, walk away.
Truthfully, from my point of view and with what little info I have to go on, I think she was just looking for the one night stand kind of thing. I mean, c'mon, she texted you?
If she was really interested, I don't think she would have hesitated to call.

Now, I can't claim to actually know what's going on, since there is not much info to go on, but this is my first impression.
 
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Obviously she's playing games with your head... If she liked you she would call you.
 
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