"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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DJ Suave

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here's the score... had a first date with a lady last friday and all went so well i ended da night with some "under cover loving". She started all of this.. kiss, touching n den everythin else.. anyway she texted me the day after n said she would c me on tuesday.

On tuesday she told me she couldnt make it but said she would let me no wen she was able 2 make it. I have not heard from her since although i sent a brief txt to see how she was yesterday (friday) still no response!!

Should i write it off or call her in a few days?????
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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nishbuk

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I'm no expert, but if it was me, and I wanted to date the girl, She'd get one call, and that's it. (And that's only after a few days). One call if she picks up, you make a date, and you tell her where you guys are going. If she cancels, or is iffy about it, walk away.
Truthfully, from my point of view and with what little info I have to go on, I think she was just looking for the one night stand kind of thing. I mean, c'mon, she texted you?
If she was really interested, I don't think she would have hesitated to call.

Now, I can't claim to actually know what's going on, since there is not much info to go on, but this is my first impression.
 
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Jake-inator

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Obviously she's playing games with your head... If she liked you she would call you.
 
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