"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Wat is different physically in a guy thats 17 and a guy thats 21?

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Because yea, some older ladies be tellin me I look cute now( I'm 17) but wait tell I get older and girls gonna be all over me. And I'm thinken to myself am I really gonna change that much in 21 years. Wats physically different between a 17 year old and a 21 year old? Wats different physically?

Heres a picture of me, the only one I got... I ain't lookin at the camera


http://img.photobucket.com/albums/v323/dadmonson/me23.jpg
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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For you there will be a difference, because you still have a youngish face. I had your same "problem", girls used to tell me that sort of things since I was 14 or so. When my faces started to grow a bit (at 16-17), I still looked younger than my age, but I was perceived as a pretty good looking boy. At 19, my face hasn't changed any since then and younger girls still tell me I'm good looking, while girls my age automatically think I'm out of their league, because they think I'm 17.

Anyway, you look pretty good now, but it actually looks like your face will become more beautiful as you'll age, because you have good facial features (when I looked at your face, I immediately thought about Will Smith). I know you just have to wait, so what about picking up some weights? Testosterone flowing through your body might help and you also look a bit skinny, so build up while you wait for your face to get better and better:)

Edit: I looked at your pic again and you resemble a black version of me, man... I've always known I look like Will Smith:)
 
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As you grow older you will get broader shoulders, more facial hair and more manly looks. I really recommend hitting the weights though. It will transform your face as your muscles grow. Your face has alot of muscles in it so training your other muscles will make your facial muscles grow and make it more mature.

http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=18040 Read this
 
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I'm always told that I look like a 30 year old, even though I'm only 20. Is that good or bad? Probably bad. Although when I worked at Microsoft over the summer some of the guys thought I was working on my PhD when I was just a freshman, which I thought was funny.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Physically, you have more growing to do. How tall are you? You seem tall but you look very thin. Can you grow any facial hair? You're skin looks as smooth as a baby's bottom.

I was a late bloomer. At 17, I was 5'9'' and about 130 lbs and could barely grow a mustache. Now at 24, I'm 5'10'', 170 lbs. and can almost grow a full beard but still not quite there. If you are a late bloomer, things begin to change once you get out of your teenage years.
 
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Time will tell, trust me when you compare pictures of yourself at age 17 and age 21 you will definatley see a difference. The best way to describe this woud be for you to look back at your progression through high school.

Freshman Year - All the seniors look so old. My goodness they have facial hair. Its like I'm going to school with adults.

Senior Year - I can't believe how easy it is to pick out who the freshmen are. They all look so young.

You get the picture.
 
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