"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Wat do you do about plates during summer break of college

SirFratserlot

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This week is finals week and everybody pretty much goes home this week. Im doing summer school, so the college will be empty pretty much and all my plates are staying at home. Theyre homes are 2+ hours away btw. I have one plate that im serious with and the other are minor. What do I do? Do I keep in contact with them via texting or something.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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DragonBlood

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If these are plates right, you shouldnt be acting like their boyfriend texting to check up on them and such like. Maybe go exclusive with the one your 'serious' with? Whatever that means exactly and organise to meet up over the weekends.


Im not really sure as I suck a LDR but my question is would you even be posting this if you already had other plates that lived and worked locally during the summer? Plates only last about 4 months anyway, might be time to move things forward if you really want or meet new girls.
 

SirFratserlot

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DragonBlood said:
If these are plates right, you shouldnt be acting like their boyfriend texting to check up on them and such like. Maybe go exclusive with the one your 'serious' with? Whatever that means exactly and organise to meet up over the weekends.


Im not really sure as I suck a LDR but my question is would you even be posting this if you already had other plates that lived and worked locally during the summer? Plates only last about 4 months anyway, might be time to move things forward if you really want or meet new girls.
I thought moving things forward was the girls job
 

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Well yeah but you have to escalate and show some amount of balls. Sounds like things will cool down otherwise. Keep things fun and invite them to stuff going on over the summer if you want. If they dont want to hang out over the summer when your then one studying then its not like you can escalate anyway.
 

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Spin more plates. The plates that went home will work themselves out inadvertently
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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