wat do i with this SPECIAL GIURL

[blueline]

She isn't special, however I have been Friends with her for 2 months hoping that she'd break up with her bf in time before the semester ended. Indeed, she broke up with him last weekend. Should I just text her "bitch, let's grab a coffee on tuesday"? To almost anybody, that's obviously a date request. Don't really give a fuck if she rejects me, I don't consider hot girls friends unless I'm currently fucking another hot girl.

We've sorta hung out twice already, but both times were school related and she wasn't single yet for both. I have more or less no IOI's here outside of friendliness. I did cold approach her and game her hard in the beginning, but then I found out through fbook that she has a bf, so I turned my attention elsewhere.

I know you guys all believe in the friend zone, however it doesn't fucking exist. LJBF is just another excuse they use to turn guys down that they aren't attracted to. However, if you believe there are certain things you need to say to a girl in order for her to become attracted to you (LOL, that is completely ridiculous), then yes, you friend zone every girl you don't 'game.' If the girl is turned on by you, you will simply remain a sexy friend and she'll still want you. I've fucked friends before without even "gaming" them.

 

[Chickfight]

Being friends with a girl is not the same as being in the friend zone. I think more accurate names of these are "flirt buddies" and "guy I wouldn't ever have sex with, but will still unload on my emotional bull**** on" respectively.
You're probably on the former, but that doesn't mean she'll want to be with you, you still got to bring game to the table and increase attraction, so no, Don't text her and don't ask her out for coffee.

I would give you advice, but you'll ignore it like you always do, because to you it's completely ridiculous. This is what this forum is about, you know... attracting women. So in the end I don't even know why the **** you're here since you've got it all figured out.

 

[pipe007]

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[blueline]

Got a coffee date with her on Thursday. The thing is, I know a lot about her already. I feel like dates require your date to be a sort of mystery for them to work. however, i can talk to this girl really easy, we have a lot in common, so the conversations just go on and on. she used to be kinda shy with the deep eye contact, and now she just returns it. if it were a different environment, i probably could've kissed her tonight.

still, she might flake. wouldn't particularly blow my mind. although rarely do i get them this connected with me and see a flake. this will be my first sexual relationship with a mental component if it works out.