"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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wasting my time?

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tony-montana

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hey i been chatting to this girl for a couple days online. now she's been messaging me straight away after signing in on msn. so i take it she likes talking to me. she's said i'm sweet, good looking. cute and that i'm a nice guy. sounds like mr nice guy doesnt it. but she really sounds like a nice gal too. she asks me tons of question and is never boring like most girls. i spoke to her on the microphone too. only me though cause she doesn't have one... just so she could hear my voice.

anyway, so i just wanted to pop the question and said "lets go see a movie!"
she did say what movie were you wanting to watch but it changed to a different topic. i also said, "do you want to say hello? i can call. feels a bit weird talking and no one else. (microphone)" she just lol'ed. didnt answer. anyhow she did mention shes going out to a bar for her friends bday but apart from that she said nothing else planned.

later on again i said on the mic "so we going to see a movie on sunday or what?" in a ****y way but nice at the same time. she again, lol'ed and no answer. i take it she's still trying to get to know me and it's too early. shes showing all the signs of interest apart from wanting to meet. just thought i'd ask around. and please save the trouble of telling me the whole "dont chat online go meet a girl outside!" i do both really. but im not much of a going out person these days as i just moved to where i am.

any ideas please? i really like this girl and i know she sort of likes me.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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How can you really like her? You've only met her online right? Cool your jets son. She's not interested in meeting up or she would have more than LOL'ed. She's probably seeing someone else. I'd just let it go.
 
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online chicks... lol.

You can have the most amazing conversation with them. It could go on for months and months. Hell, years even. But if they won't meet you, they just won't

For your own sake, weed out those chicks early, before you invest any real time talking to them.
 
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