"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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i usually put gel in my hair in the morning and at the end of the day shampoo my hair.

ive heard that washing your hair less is better for your hair.

the thing is, i need to put gel in my hair.

is it recommended that i wash off the gel everytime at the end of the day?

i just use alittle gel, so that my hair is parted nicely. then blow dry.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Warboss Alex

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good bloody grief.

just shave it off and don't worry about it!

On the very rare occasions I use gel, I wash it off as soon as possible..

I'd say washing your hair more often is no worse than going around with a head full of gunk.
 
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there's no truth in that, shampoo will not damage your hair if you do it everyday. i've been shampooing daily (and twice a day sometimes) for years and my hair is still here (and looks very good)
 
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Re: Re: washing your hair

Originally posted by Jay-X
there's no truth in that, shampoo will not damage your hair if you do it everyday. i've been shampooing daily (and twice a day sometimes) for years and my hair is still here (and looks very good)
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It may not damage your hair, but your washing out the natural oils that make your hair look it's best. Back when I had long hair, it looked best when I hadn't washed it for a day.
 
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I agree my hair looks better after it hasnt been washed for a day otherwise its too dry.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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so you guys just wash your hair like every other day?
 
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