"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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washing your hair

dadood

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i usually put gel in my hair in the morning and at the end of the day shampoo my hair.

ive heard that washing your hair less is better for your hair.

the thing is, i need to put gel in my hair.

is it recommended that i wash off the gel everytime at the end of the day?

i just use alittle gel, so that my hair is parted nicely. then blow dry.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Warboss Alex

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good bloody grief.

just shave it off and don't worry about it!

On the very rare occasions I use gel, I wash it off as soon as possible..

I'd say washing your hair more often is no worse than going around with a head full of gunk.
 

Jay-X

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there's no truth in that, shampoo will not damage your hair if you do it everyday. i've been shampooing daily (and twice a day sometimes) for years and my hair is still here (and looks very good)
 

ApocalypseCow2

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Re: Re: washing your hair

Originally posted by Jay-X
there's no truth in that, shampoo will not damage your hair if you do it everyday. i've been shampooing daily (and twice a day sometimes) for years and my hair is still here (and looks very good)
It may not damage your hair, but your washing out the natural oils that make your hair look it's best. Back when I had long hair, it looked best when I hadn't washed it for a day.
 

medjaun

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I agree my hair looks better after it hasnt been washed for a day otherwise its too dry.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Snap87

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so you guys just wash your hair like every other day?
 
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