"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Washing Hair Properly

ryan killa

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A dumb question, no doubt, as I have washed my hair all my life..(duh)

But, I have this dandruff, and it WONT FULLY GO AWAY. I have had dandruff for a long time now, it was covered up pretty well, as I had longer hair, but now I have almost a fully shaved head, and it is a bit visible.

I have started using a new shampoo(it has a coal tar extract), and it has worked quite well, but it has not eliminated my problem.

I think I am washing my hair wrong, or something. I rinse my hair with lukewarm water, put the shampoo in my hand, put all the shampoo on my head, then use my fingertips to massage it into my scalp. Then, I let it just sit for like 5-7 minutes, and then rinse it under cold water for like a minute, not using my hands at all to rinse it, just the water.

Please, if anyone has any ideas, or needs more info., ask or give me advice. I am primarily interested in techniques for washing my hair. I will be checking constantly for the next 45 mins., then going to shower hopefully! Please, anyone!
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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SmoothTalker

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Why do you let it sit for so long? Unless your shampoo has special instructions, I dont think you should leave it on your hair and scalp so long.. In fact that might even be what's causign the dandruff because shampoo's are on the have a pH rating above neutral, and can irritate your scalp, causing a condition that looks a lot like dandruff but really isnt.
 

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I'm using a cheap shampoo right now and it does dry my scalp out. So, I started washing it every other day. Seems to look ok...
 

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1- Buy Head and shoulders dandruff shampoo for dry scalp. For the first week or so, your gonna have A LOT of dandruff, but thats just getting all the hidden dandruff out. Wash your hair daily with that shampoo and you should be fine in a week are so.

2- After the dandruff is gone, only wash your hair once every other day and condition it too. You might have to use a shower cap so you can still take a shower daily.

3- If u ever stop using this shampoo, things will be normal for a few weeks, but then after that your back to the old dandruff u had!
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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DJintheworks

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easy, and I don't even have dandruff. Buy Nizoral shampoo leave on five minutes rinse repeat. Everyday for a week then every other day after that. Afterwards your scalp will be dry so you put a couple drops of either jojoba or emu oil on your scalp problem solved.
 

Capitol39

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It's probably not your technique that's the problem. If it's really that bad, you may want to see a dermatologist.

I used to get dandruff all the time. It was like I was in a perpetual snow storm. I found out, in my case, that it was actually caused by me being stressed out all the time. Since I've learned to relax and take better care of myself in general, my dandruff has completely disappeared.
 
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