picard
Master Don Juan
Have you guys wash your expensive dress shirt with wool lite liquid detergent? Does wool lite preserve the color of fabric and remove dirt ?
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
This is THE most important part. NEVER use a dryer for anything besides towels or underwear. Why? The combination of heat and the motion not only fades the clothes, but wears them out something to the tune of 85% faster than hanging things to dry. The washing machine accounts for about 10% of the wear. Know this: wearing clothes doesn't wear them out, the dryer does. Sure, you'll cry about not having fabric softener and fluffy soft clothes, but when the electric/gas bill comes they'll be tears of joy.Bad_Lil'Pixie said:...and hang it on the line to dry or lay it flat on a towel and "shape" it so it will dry nicely.