"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Was Your Next Girlfriend Better Than Your Ex?

soulforge

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I think one of the reasons we find it so hard to move on from a relationship is because, we feel the next girl will not be as good, or as hot, or the chemistry will not be there!

thats how i felt after my 2 year relationship with a hot blonde.. but after her, i met some chicks who where not as good looking, but the sex was better and they was more fun to be around..

The current girl i was seeing, was fun to be around.. but the sex was something else.. seriously kinky, wanting to be tied up and fuked etc.. lots of other kinky sex too!!


Did you move onto something better? Or do you feel you downgraded looks and sex wise??
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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bigneil

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The last 2 times a girl broke my heart (which has happened twice to me since 2004), the next girl was much better, equally pretty, and loved me to death. The previous 2 times, I never found another lover like them. They were my greatest 2 lovers of my life. Part of that is simply that I'm older now and I can't do it 5 straight times like I used to. So on average, my next girlfriend was better about half the time.
 

Desdinova

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Each woman has different characteristics that can be better than an ex. I had one who fvcked like an animal, was very pretty, and had an extremely sexy appeal to her. This was after a very difficult breakup.

The unfortunate thing is that ex still shone above the others with regards to loyalty, affection, attention, being low-mileage, feminine, and didn't have any male orbiters. Getting all of that in one woman is a very rare treat, and I have yet to find one who at the very least matches that level of quality.
 

El Payaso

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A million times better.
 
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