"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Was Your Next Girlfriend Better Than Your Ex?

soulforge

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I think one of the reasons we find it so hard to move on from a relationship is because, we feel the next girl will not be as good, or as hot, or the chemistry will not be there!

thats how i felt after my 2 year relationship with a hot blonde.. but after her, i met some chicks who where not as good looking, but the sex was better and they was more fun to be around..

The current girl i was seeing, was fun to be around.. but the sex was something else.. seriously kinky, wanting to be tied up and fuked etc.. lots of other kinky sex too!!


Did you move onto something better? Or do you feel you downgraded looks and sex wise??
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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bigneil

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The last 2 times a girl broke my heart (which has happened twice to me since 2004), the next girl was much better, equally pretty, and loved me to death. The previous 2 times, I never found another lover like them. They were my greatest 2 lovers of my life. Part of that is simply that I'm older now and I can't do it 5 straight times like I used to. So on average, my next girlfriend was better about half the time.
 

Desdinova

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Each woman has different characteristics that can be better than an ex. I had one who fvcked like an animal, was very pretty, and had an extremely sexy appeal to her. This was after a very difficult breakup.

The unfortunate thing is that ex still shone above the others with regards to loyalty, affection, attention, being low-mileage, feminine, and didn't have any male orbiters. Getting all of that in one woman is a very rare treat, and I have yet to find one who at the very least matches that level of quality.
 

El Payaso

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A million times better.
 
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