Decided to not go out this weekend. So I was watching Keys to the VIP (http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Keys_to_the_VIP) and they had 2 of the biggest losers on the show. I feel SOOOO much better about my game. One of the guys had to beg for a number and the other guy couldn't get a number in the 3 games. And I thought I was bad, I guess I'm not that bad. I know this is kinda a random thread but I thought I'd say something.
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Was watching Keys to the VIP tonight and I feel much better about my game
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"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
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Cajun was the best to ever do that show.
Yeah I know some of the guys on there could put me to shame and I give my props to those guys. But some of them do far worse than me on my worst day and they act like they are gods (for instance last night with Mike and Isaac, man they sucked;Mike - 0.7 , Isaac - 0)Cr1msonKing said: