Was this respectful

[DJ4Real]

There is this girl that I like, problem is I think she hates me. So I decided to let her go. Is this email respectful? or bad?



Well, I haven't had one of these kinds of talks to anyone in a long time. But, anyways, here's the deal. I'm a very playful guy. I like to have fun, joke,and etc. I think that the way I play around is a little rough for you. For example, when you got all in my face that one time, and playfully, you tested my confidence, and I hit you with the newspaper. You seeming got angry. But, the fact of the matter is, I was only playing around. I would hope that you'd have the jist by now. I'm really confident, and I'm not a push-over. In addition, I wouldn't try to domineer you. I don't think it's necessary to domineer people. You just seem too serious and sensitive for the ways that I like to have fun (you just will not lighten up).

No, I'm not going to change the ways that I have fun with people and become all "nice". But, instead, I'm just not going to mess with you anymore.

Good luck with whatever you do.

Dge

 

[08aisaac]

Please stop, NOW.

Firstly, you never state the fact that you are confident, or not a push over, because that's fundamently wrong. You don't speak through words, but rather action. Just like a true DJ.

Secondly, you used words, that I didn't even know existed. lol.

And I wouldn't even email her in the frst place. What you are asking her to do, is change, just for you.

Don't email her, just forget it. It is past. Read the bible.

 

[DJ4Real]

no, I'm not asking her to change...I'm telling her it's over with. I told her just enough, she has no clue that I like her. Actually this the only really considerate thing that I've done. I told her what the deal was, and I told her that I wasn't going to change. It's one thing to state " your going to have to change " and it's another thing to say " I'm just not going to mess with you "...If she wants to be a little less personal about things I say...so be it....if not, that's her deal.

By the way, women like a change in things...99.9 percent of everything I've done have been actions.....So now, I will act on what I said.

 

[AustinG]

i started laughin when you hit her with a news paper

 

[GateKeeper]

Well Asiaac has a point... but only 1 point.

Dont say that you are a confident person. It is low... LOW..

is it low? It's low. Why? Because it is. The rest of the email... I think it's good. Classy, firm, I like it. Dont take my word for it though. PEOPLE are many times unpredictable in the way they react. She could love you for the email, or she could hate you and scream to her friends about how much she dislikes you now... The balls in your court buddy. Good Luck..

 

[DJ4Real]

Thanks, I was probably wrong for saying that I was confident. Only reason why I said it is because she continued to test it over and over and over...you catch my drift.

 

[08aisaac]

People seem to have something against my posts. lol.

i dunno. But yeah, I know a chick that hates me, but I also don't like her, so it all works out.

 

[MVP¤¥¤JI€GALO]

It's really hard to explain anything to a girl over the net. Thats why i strongly suggest against it. This would have worked out way better in person when your both making eye contacts. In my opinion, mails as well as phones are just ways to plan a meeting, not to be use as a shield to hide from rejections. While your sitting comfatable in your chair in front of the screen , it is common sense that better results are attaind when your talking to the other person face to face.

 

[Docs]

It's not hard at all, I use 'total all-out as-hole mode' when I want to get a point across to someone that deserves it.

I'm harsh. ^^

 

[DJ4Real]

Originally posted by MVP???JI?GALO
It's really hard to explain anything to a girl over the net. Thats why i strongly suggest against it. This would have worked out way better in person when your both making eye contacts. In my opinion, mails as well as phones are just ways to plan a meeting, not to be use as a shield to hide from rejections. While your sitting comfatable in your chair in front of the screen , it is common sense that better results are attaind when your talking to the other person face to face.

Probably right, but the email is fine.

 

[DJ4Real]

Originally posted by Mctwist4
Don't send that email. You shouldn't care what she thinks. Just let it go.

Already sent it......but you notice that I said " I will not change. But, instead, I'm just not going to mess with you ". Pretty powerful statement, don't you agree?

 

[S-lemond]

why would you basically lay out your game....for her to analize??? ne one feel me on this?

 

[DJ4Real]

Originally posted by E_ze05
why would you basically lay out your game....for her to analize??? ne one feel me on this?

One thing you have to learn about women. Women LOVE to analyze things. Analyzing things is part of their "fun". She would analyze things even if I didn't email her. Although she will attempt to analyze, chances are, she'll analyze wrong.

 

[True Wolf]

Looking over the email, all i've got to say is that the juju is not strong with this one. Sorry man, but you just need to lay down the law.

 

[DJ4Real]

Like MVP said, it would have come out a lot stronger in person. It would have been a very firm speech.

 

[The Master Disaster]

Your Email is a joke i needed a laugh. "I'm Ruff?" Just tell you ur sorry. I fell asleep reading that. No woman is gonna read that saying "OH! That Makes sense" Don't talk aobut urself no one wants to hear it. Just don't email her and just act different. WHY DID YOU HIT A GIRL with a newspaper thats just like hey i like you but i'm dumb. You don't have a chance. MOVE ON!

 

[DJ4Real]

Originally posted by The Master Disaster
Your Email is a joke i needed a laugh. "I'm Ruff?" Just tell you ur sorry. I fell asleep reading that. No woman is gonna read that saying "OH! That Makes sense" Don't talk aobut urself no one wants to hear it. Just don't email her and just act different. WHY DID YOU HIT A GIRL with a newspaper thats just like hey i like you but i'm dumb. You don't have a chance. MOVE ON!

Well, you've just proven yourself to be the biggest jack off of the year. :crackup: . Look, I didn't post this for someone to try to make a big deal out of it. For your information, even after I PLAYFULLY hit her with newspaper we still carried a quite good communicative relationship. So, Mr Master "Disaster" get your facts straight and get hooked on phonics because you're a horrifically sad reader and speller. I never said "I'm Ruff", I said I wasn't a PUSH OVER though. Ok, no more people who want to make jack off and pointless comments. Everyone elses comment has been well taken. I took it lightly on you this time kid disaster.

 

[familyguyfan]

Originally posted by DJ4Real
Well, you've just proven yourself to be the biggest jack off of the year. :crackup: . Look, I didn't post this for someone to try to make a big deal out of it. For your information, even after I PLAYFULLY hit her with newspaper we still carried a quite good communicative relationship. So, Mr Master "Disaster" get your facts straight and get hooked on phonics because you're a horrifically sad reader and speller. I never said "I'm Ruff", I said I wasn't a PUSH OVER though. Ok, no more people who want to make jack off and pointless comments. Everyone elses comment has been well taken. I took it lightly on you this time kid disaster.

So you're basically saying you only want people that agree with what you did to post.


I don't think you should have sent it. Though I don't know your exact relationship with the girl, you said she doesn't even know you like her. So why would you send her the email? Most girls would think that is weird. If she's pissed at you you just ask her why and explain yourself and apologize.

 

[DJ4Real]

Familyguy, I don't mind if people disagree. I just don't need people replying like " YOUR SO DUMB, YOUR SO THIS, WHY DID YOU DO THIS AND THAT". The most recent good criticism would be MVP's. Unlike Disaster, MVP said it in a positive manner.
Disaster just wanted to be a jack off and he attempted to bash my head in with insults. I don't know why I don't apologize. Apologizing seems soo "nice guy-ish" to me now. I caught her in the corner of my eye looking at me in class today ( I think she was because her eyes were pointed towards my direction. Problem is, there were several people around, so it was hard to read the eye contact.)

Why would most girls think it's weird?

It's no different than any other email. This email was just me being a bit serious with her.

 

[The Master Disaster]

sorry i should of said it nicer. Just imagine it in a nice tone. I didn't realize it was in a negative tone. What should do:
1. Approacher and Talk
2. Say your sorry for w/e
3. Don't talk much

Just start slow and work up and u'll get her back. Just try and not become her Biznotch