"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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http://www.huffingtonpost.com/2011/...mbarrassing-email_n_1135279.html?ref=urlesque

Yeah. Don't do this. Ever.

Choice excerpt:

You played with your hair a lot. A woman playing with her hair is a common sign of flirtation. You can even do a google search on it. When a woman plays with her hair, she is preening. I've never had a date where a woman played with her hair as much as you did. In addition, it didn't look like you were playing with your hair out of nervousness.
This guy is clearly a master of womanology. I would follow him anywhere.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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the oneitis is STRONG in this one.
 

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On the upside, this guy is really good at analyzing. And by that I actually mean he's horrible at analyzing and wouldn't be able to reason his way out of an empty closet. An empty closet with no doors or walls.

And they let this guys handle MONEY?!

Maybe he's like Dustin Hoffman's character in Rain Man. Really good with numbers. REALLY horrible with people.
 

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Mike needs a membership here stat.

Biggest AFC ever.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Some of the comments on there are too funny... What a dumbass that guy is. But yeah, that used to be me.
 

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I just thought we had a lot of potential. That's all.

Plus she was wearing red. Which we all know is the color of fertility.
 

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Before a guy sends an email like this he should take a "what if?" thought for a moment..

Imagine you had a date with a woman who you did not click with at all and you weren't interested in her, then she sent you this email. Wouldn't you be pretty fvcking creeped out?!

I know I would lol. This guy knows a thing or two about flirting that you can read in a maxim article, but he really needs to get his hand on the DJ bible or another book of similar doctrine.
 

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AFC of the Year award. Talking about all the millions he's got and spends 3 hours writing this email to some chick who blew him off. What a chump.
 

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PokerStar said:
the oneitis is STRONG in this one.
Its as if you read my mind.
He shouldve thought of her on the bowl before sending that.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Story was all over Facebook yesterday.

Didn't even bother saying anything. It's the kind of thing that doesn't need any more publicity.
 

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loveshogun said:
http://www.huffingtonpost.com/2011/...mbarrassing-email_n_1135279.html?ref=urlesque

Yeah. Don't do this. Ever.

Choice excerpt:

This guy is clearly a master of womanology. I would follow him anywhere.
-You said, "It was nice to meet you." at the end of our date. A woman could say this statement as a way to show that she isn't interested in seeing a man again or she could mean what she said--that it was nice to meet you. The statement, by itself, is inconclusive.

ROFL
 

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loveshogun said:
On the upside, this guy is really good at analyzing. And by that I actually mean he's horrible at analyzing and wouldn't be able to reason his way out of an empty closet. An empty closet with no doors or walls.

And they let this guys handle MONEY?!

Maybe he's like Dustin Hoffman's character in Rain Man. Really good with numbers. REALLY horrible with people.
I could be wrong, but my thinking is he's probably recovering from Asperger syndrome, which is something I have. My guess is he has gained a certain amount of social awareness, learned some of the science of game, probably read the PUA community, but obviously isn't aware of the rule of game to never verbalize game, to never argue against rejection. He is analytical but is still lacking self-awareness to calibrate himself and figure out when and why things go wrong, for which of course he is oblivious.
 

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His email was TLDR

seriously, it really does take hard work to be simp. I wonder if he even spell/grammar check his sh1t. Probably sat up all night writing that.

Poor guy
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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I dont think it is real.... Maybe something that was never meant to be sent, sort of like a mental masturbation exercise. But I can see similar but shorter variations being sent out on a regular basis.
 

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actually when I read the letter it came off kinda cute, in a way I think that was his purpose for it.

You see what he was doing was using the power of suggestion when he hinted that they had potential, that she was "attracted" to him by playing with her hair, eye contact etc. and he also tried coming off as a "jerk" by being assertive in the tone of his writing style but at the same time gave her validation.

If you want someone to really think about you, and this is true especially with females hence why they love to text and read, you write it down.

Mike had nothing left to lose and it was genius thinking up something very unusual to differentiate him from the pack of other male suitors and write her a letter that utilized the power of suggestion.

I think it's a masterpiece, and I might just do the same. lol
 

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I don't know why folks have to go off on stuff like this. I live by the fact that I leave things open with flakey women. Those flakey relationships are much stronger the second time around because they have some history with you then.
 

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u guys just don't know what you are missing with Asian women.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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