"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Cod3r said:
Shoes -> "Wow those are cute... my mom has the same pair"

Name -> "Really aww thats cute, that's my dogs name... we call her ____ <-- make up cute nickname"

Voice -> "You know your voice is kinda cute... like a cool chipmunk"

Smell -> "U smell pretty good.. wats that oldspce ? Ru wearing oldspice!?"

Her Lips -> "You're lips are sexy... wipe the gloss off ur nose tho"


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The point is to give her something NICE first and then something negative, NOT MEAN. Never say anything mean, just something to kinda push and pull, give a compliment and then just take it away, dosen't mean you have to give compliment and then give an insult....

Basically the formula is... compliment + offhand sarcastic remark = Neg


-Cod3r
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Thanks for the tips Dude. I love the formula! Thats it! :rolleyes:
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Fang said:
Just don't neg anybody who you feel might get offended. I.e. people not so attractive. Go with your instinct.
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Yeah I think your right. Its better to go on intinct.
My guess is that I would only neg those women who who are too high on thier pedestal.
 
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i dont get why you negged her. that didnt really seem like a neg too and now im confused after reading this post. why exactly do you want to neg girls like that/when should you do it?
 
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