"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Freddy1

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Cod3r said:
Shoes -> "Wow those are cute... my mom has the same pair"

Name -> "Really aww thats cute, that's my dogs name... we call her ____ <-- make up cute nickname"

Voice -> "You know your voice is kinda cute... like a cool chipmunk"

Smell -> "U smell pretty good.. wats that oldspce ? Ru wearing oldspice!?"

Her Lips -> "You're lips are sexy... wipe the gloss off ur nose tho"


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The point is to give her something NICE first and then something negative, NOT MEAN. Never say anything mean, just something to kinda push and pull, give a compliment and then just take it away, dosen't mean you have to give compliment and then give an insult....

Basically the formula is... compliment + offhand sarcastic remark = Neg


-Cod3r
Thanks for the tips Dude. I love the formula! Thats it! :rolleyes:
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Fang said:
Just don't neg anybody who you feel might get offended. I.e. people not so attractive. Go with your instinct.
Yeah I think your right. Its better to go on intinct.
My guess is that I would only neg those women who who are too high on thier pedestal.
 

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i dont get why you negged her. that didnt really seem like a neg too and now im confused after reading this post. why exactly do you want to neg girls like that/when should you do it?
 
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