"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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She informs me that she passed her driving test - me knowing full well it wasn't her first attempt - say oh first time was it? She laughs and says no third. Is this effective, constituting to a subtle neg hit or not?

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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Originally posted by Page3lover2
She informs me that she passed her driving test - me knowing full well it wasn't her first attempt - say oh first time was it? She laughs and says no third. Is this effective, constituting to a subtle neg hit or not?

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Mild, subtle neg hit - yes. You can say add "Let me take you for a ride and show you how you are supposed to drive".. and show her how to make fast 180 degree turn (you know how they do it in movies, especially police cars - going in one direction, hit the brakes, turn the wheel and tires screech.. and they are going in teh opposite directly already..)
 
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