"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Was this a test??

ScrewIt

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is this ********??

ive held small talks with this girl in my class tha tmeets up 2x per week.

last week everyone in the class graded everyone's else's design work.

i gave this dude an A cause i knew he was a ****, and that he was walking all around every table looking at what grade ppl gave him for his assignment. no i didnt give him an A cause he was a ****, but cause i knew he'd eventually catch that A with his eyes, and in return he'd give me an A. I know what type of dude he is, he gives ppl grade NOT accordingly, but whatever he sees them give him, he gives the same to them. enough talk about this ****.

yea anyway back to the girl, today in class, here's the convo:

HB 7 hey you know ____ the guy in this clas right?
me: yea, why?
HB7: well remember that day we were grading each other?
me: yea
HB7: i have another class w/him, and he said "you know that azn kid you talk to in class." ...yea..."well i dont like him." "he first gave me an A, then changed it to a B." her, "how'd u know he changed it?" ****, "well, lets just say i have good eyes." "i gave him an A, but changed it to a B after that."
me: oh really? oh well.

ATM, i was wondering why this girl would tell me this, or if she made it up (highly doubt she did, she dosnt seem like the type).
then i was thinking she just likes to rat on ppl, OR she has interest in me and this was a test to see how i would react.
there are times where she comes over to my table and small talk, look at the magazine im looking at, and other times, she just ignores me when i ask her something.

yea anyway, i think i passed the test.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Walk this Way

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lol, I doubt it was a test, but you should have just said something like, "Oh jeez, did you punch him in the face for me?"
 

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Originally posted by Walk this Way
lol, I doubt it was a test, but you should have just said something like, "Oh jeez, did you punch him in the face for me?"
lol that sounds like a good response with humor in it, maybe i shouldve said that.

but have you thought that if i said that, it would make it seem like im pissed?
 

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wtf sense are you making? You interested in this girl or not? If not, who gives a crap!
 
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