"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Was this a test, or blowing me off, or she chickened out?

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timmylivingalie

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I have been chatting with this chic on facebook for awhile. She was the one that messaged me first, we have good rapport, I have knew her since grade school.
She works part time at a full service gas station. So I pulled in there today to get gas and she ignores me and the other chick that was working there pumped my gas. She did wave at me when I was leaving but something just didn't seem right?
Should I go no contact? Or message her something ****y and funny about why she didn't pump my gas?
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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tryst type

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She probably felt a little embarrassed and caught off guard. She could be so interested and used to the comfort of safe online FB chatting that she tensed up and didn't want to engage in a face to face chat just yet. I wouldn't take it personal she did at least wave bye.
 
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ronniel

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stop beating around the bush and ask her out
you appear weak by not doing so
 
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Slickster

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Yeah dude you live in a small town. No need for Facebook here. Just go talk to her and ask her out.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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