"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Was this a flake?

weakepedea

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Girl says she'll call but texts.

Was that a flake?
 
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"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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guywhoneedshelp

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Something like this happened to me recently. Girl texts me at 10:30 PM saying "sorry I couldn't make it tonight" and I was like "It's not too late" and she was like "deff another time"

Wtf?
 

mtlwlu

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the 2nd one was a flake, the first one she probably prefers texting, Id phone her though after you get the text, IF she doesnt pick up...then thats a flake. Always have the ball in your court.
 

tsmith2334

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Second one is a flake, first one isn't.

I had a girl who was really into me IM me rather than call me to confirm a date because she was nervous.

And alot of girls just prefer texting these days. Six in one, half a dozen in the other.
 
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