"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Was this a bad joke?

rrrrr

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I had my driver's license out showing how i have the old version, a girl i was with took it, started staring at it, and i kept saying give it back. Finally she gave it back to me and i said "you were trying to memorize my social security number weren't you?" My social security number is on it, unfortunately. She started calling me a weirdo even though I was joking, got all defenseve and pretty much turned on me. Was I out of line on this? Was this a weird comment?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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eminence

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no, she probably was trying to...that's the only reason she would get offended. but why the hell do you have your ss # on your license...seriously I have that kind of stuff locked away..it's not too hard to memorize it anyways
 
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