"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Was there a specific incident which made you decide you wanted to stop being an AFC?

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Firefly said:
So do you guys thinkI should do anything about this? My instinct is just to next her as I felt she was acting like an Attention wh*re. At the same time, I still find her pretty attractive, and it would be nice to know what I had missed out on all those years ago. Any thoughts?
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Argh! NO! She is just trying to get you back into your Chump cage. She knows you had feelings for her and that will always give her a little confidence boost. She still sees you as the 'un-sexually threatening, shoulder to cry on , brotherly etc type guy. The only way to put an end to this is sorry state of affairs is to tell her directly that you want to sh@g her - in no uncertain terms. Make her know for sure and for ever more that you want her sexually. If she wont put out, then WALK AWAY. Do not reply to texts, emails, nothing. Only that way my friend wlil you know where you stand.
The hard thing I have learnt (and of course I am still learning!) is that no matter how potentially un-'pc' or embarrassing it miight be - you have to tell a girl as soon as possible you want her sexually.

Good luck!:up:
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"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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