"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Was there a specific incident which made you decide you wanted to stop being an AFC?

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Firefly said:
So do you guys thinkI should do anything about this? My instinct is just to next her as I felt she was acting like an Attention wh*re. At the same time, I still find her pretty attractive, and it would be nice to know what I had missed out on all those years ago. Any thoughts?
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Argh! NO! She is just trying to get you back into your Chump cage. She knows you had feelings for her and that will always give her a little confidence boost. She still sees you as the 'un-sexually threatening, shoulder to cry on , brotherly etc type guy. The only way to put an end to this is sorry state of affairs is to tell her directly that you want to sh@g her - in no uncertain terms. Make her know for sure and for ever more that you want her sexually. If she wont put out, then WALK AWAY. Do not reply to texts, emails, nothing. Only that way my friend wlil you know where you stand.
The hard thing I have learnt (and of course I am still learning!) is that no matter how potentially un-'pc' or embarrassing it miight be - you have to tell a girl as soon as possible you want her sexually.

Good luck!:up:
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"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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