"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Was the woman jealous?

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For those of you who have liked a woman before, but for some reason it didnt go as planned, and she either played hard to get, or wasn't as receptive as she should be, did any of you ever game another woman, and then realize that the other girl was jealous?

Let's say a woman was playing hard to get. Later you decide to forget her, and move on. You then either see her and you are with another woman, or she over hears you talking about having a date.

How many of you have had the other woman come back and start flirting again, or get jealous that it isn't HER that is with you instead of the other woman?

Do women take this stuff seriously, and battle it out once they realize you went after another one? I think some women out there for some reason think that just because we flirt with them, or show interest, that they are the ONLY girl we are gaming, and that when she pulls crap, she'll think that you'll just come right back to her.

Anyway, just a thought, and I wondered how many of you ended up with the other girl, or had her wanting you more when she realize she couldn't have you, or that you were going to be taken.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Omen said:
Do women take this stuff seriously, and battle it out once they realize you went after another one? I think some women out there for some reason think that just because we flirt with them, or show interest, that they are the ONLY girl we are gaming, and that when she pulls crap, she'll think that you'll just come right back to her.

Im with you on this one. Girls seem to hate this more than anything. i recon its because they enjoy the attention and the boost to their ego they recieve from our attention. When we move on, so does the attention and they get all upset. Personally i dont let it bother me, screw them. if they dont wanna be with me, cool, but they aint gona get much more than hi from me in that case.

What's more annoying is that they can start getting really *****y and off with you as a result. Classic example of women wanting their cake and wanting to eat it too. :down:
 

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Read the book of pook, some girls bounce from relationship to relationship because theyre so good looking and have such a high sex drive, I think we always appear more attractive when stood next to our gf.
 

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I'm sure guys do this as well, and that is probably a given. But seeing the nature of women and how they are usually more emotional than guys, it would seem like it should hit them far worse than us.

And yes they can get *****y. I had a girl tell me when I texted her a few times over the week that she was too busy to respond. So then I was like... What, now you think you can talk to me all of the sudden cause you see me in person? You dont have 2 seconds to say hi in your day (which is all it takes) but you want to chat it up with me now face to face? I was like... you know you got your number deleted because what's the point of keeping it in my phone when you wont talk to me? Then she was like... That's your fault you deleted it, I was like... Uh NO, I did it on purpose. It wasn't a mistake I hit the delete button.

I think she's a little ticked off, and cant believe I did that, but she'll be even more ticked when she finds out I have a date tomorrow and it isn't her.

I gave her a chance and she didnt respond quick enough, and I dont wait for chicks to make up their flaky minds.

When she said she didnt have time I almost told her she was so full of **** it was coming out of her ears. She is a TERRIBLE liar. lol
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Well, the girl I mentioned above seemed to be really upset tonight. I told a friend while she was around that I had a date tomorrow. I also invited the friend to a graduation open house and didnt invite her, and I think she's ticked as hell since I mentioned I would about a month ago. That was though before she started to flake and make up crap as to why she cant talk on the phone

In fact I know she was ticked cause the look on her face looked like that of a pissed girl. I'm not sure what she is more upset over, but she'll get over it, or else quit playing stupid games with me.

No biggy cause I got a date and she had her chance. So who cares if she's all mad cause it isn't her. Not my problem.

But that answered my question on my end. This one was jealous.
 

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She just wasnt very intrested in you, I think you spoiled things for yourself, its clear that you cared and it upset you when she didnt respond. She didnt need to know that though, you could have been nice to her face and fvcked her later.
 

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sebastionay said:
She just wasnt very intrested in you, I think you spoiled things for yourself, its clear that you cared and it upset you when she didnt respond. She didnt need to know that though, you could have been nice to her face and fvcked her later.
Well, I think more than anything was this one had a boyfriend and maybe just wasnt the type to swing or cheat, and then breaking up with him for me might not have been the easiest thing to do right away. I saw her boyfriend that day cause this tool is always around. I work with the girl, and he always seems to show up and screw around and then leave. She can do so much better that yeah it does upset me, but it's her choice.

I wasn't really rude, cause I was all happy when I told my friend about my date and what not. This girl just happened to be listening in. In fact I think she listened on purpose. She WANTED to know what was going on. She didnt walk away, but sat there hearing the whole story. Then she was upset later.

The other thing was probably the fact that she thought she was the only one I was approaching, as in i'd wait forever for the girl. Cause just a week earlier things were fine. And even the week before that she was flirty as hell.

I think like I mentioned before that it was burned in her head that she was it, and i'd do what ever it took to get her. Then a week later she finds out I have a date. When she was around I told my friend... I dont screw around and wait for women, and I told my friend that i'm not waiting months for this girl. She either goes on a date with me or I move on. Next thing I know my friend texted me and she goes... She'll go on the date. Its her friend. But while I was telling this other girl this, the one I liked heard the whole conversation.

Now she's left behind when I gave her a chance. Now she'll wonder about her choice. I dont think she's extremely happy in her relationship but she just doesn't know what to do.

Regardless of anything, I have a new girl in the picture, and if this one wants to come around, great and if not, I dont care one way or the other. She knows i'm a wanted man when I want to be, and I dont wait and I dont play games. Other women know the prize they are getting, and I can say that it is much better than what this one has.

Its just funny how upset she was over the whole thing. I know she's thinking...**** I cant believe he has a date just like that after a week ago he was gaming me. :up:
 
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