"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Was the 19 y.o. Courtney Stodden's dumping of her 54 y.o. husband inevitable?

MatureDJ

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http://gma.yahoo.com/blogs/abc-blog...-desires-172701056--abc-news-celebrities.html

Now I realize that this chick is a tramp, but as someone close to the husband's age who is interested in young women, I'd like to help make sure that I chose wisely. Perhaps just avoiding tramps like her might be the answer, but perhaps there is something that is common to all such marriages of middle-aged men to young, hot women.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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it was inevitaable that it was never going to go the distance, first hooked up when she was 16??? the damn fool married her, hope the ego trip was worth it
 

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He worshipped her. She used him for fame, and stayed with him long enough to try to not make it look that way.

She could have liked him the beginning but that doesn't last long if you act the way he did.
 
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