"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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amnbyrd

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Ok so earlier today I was at this volunteer carwash and it was mostly dudes though there was this one hot girl. I only talked to her a little though she did seem friendly. At times there were what seemed like ****blockers coming by and one was older and had a gut and had his shirt off. Were all in the military so it really is rare to come across a hot girl and when you do they're always surrounded by at least 5-6 guys. In those cases I don't even bother. Well nothing much happened I know I should've gone for the number. But my main question is am I pretty much out? I mean was that my one and only chance with this girl or would it be alright if I happened to run into her again(her dorm is beside mine) and try to talk her up and get her number?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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amnbyrd

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Ok I will this time. I guess I can use the car wash as something to get the convo going. But damn the attractive girl to guy ratio here is seriously fvcked up so I wouldnt be surprised if she already has a bf. But what the hell-I've got nothing to lose. Any other input or tips would be appriciated.
 
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DJ1234

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go for it dude, but make sure you do it the next time you see her or she might lose interest if you wait too late like you were just being friendly...otherwise you kind of have to build more rapport again...
 
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Walk over to her dorm right now and get that number. Just kidding. But go for it, what's the worst that could happen?

Just try for the vibe first.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

Read more...

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