"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Was super nice guy, turning into *******?

Dilinqwol

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Ok so I lost my virginity last week to a girl and she left me the minute we finished. She said it just wasnt going to work out anymore.
Now I feel like I Was too nice because she told me this too and now im thinking of turning into an ******* because I know it will do me better?
any tips??
im 18 btw
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Or option C, read the DJ bible, and become a man. What girls really like is confidence, *******s just give off a fake sense of this.
 

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The sex was bad. Learn to give girls orgasms. There's a book called "She Comes First" that I read when I was starting out.
 

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Or option D. Don't be a fag and do the necessary research about how to be a man.

Also, it doesn't necessarily mean the sex was bad..though it MOST LIKELY WAS. Consider that she may have also had inner turmoil/guilt after, or any number of things like an ex. So it's not all your fault...but still, get better at sex.
 
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