"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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started an AIM convo with this girl. everything was good untill about 3 minutes into it she goes: i have to go to homework now. ill talk to you later. and thats it. doesnt even put an away message up.

i know i know, she could be telling the truth and i could be reading into this too much. but is this a subtle way of getting rid of me or dor she actually have homework?

(this is a girl i recently met, goes to a different school, a year younger than me, and isnt really what anyone would call a prude, and she still hasnt put an away message up)
she gave me her screen name for the record
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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We cant judge it 100% accurately without knowing what the convo was actually like,what you talked about,etc.

Instead,dont worry about it.Who cares if she did?I mean if she did,next time dont start the convo with her.Infact ignore her a bit and maybe you pull that move on her next time.

Dont make it seem like its bothering you.If she does it constantly,ignore her.If its just maybe once,then dont stress out about it girls do that stuff sometimes its no big deal.
 
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You worrying about this is a sign of something more serious.

You need to have many more priorities than an AIM convo with a girl whom you've just met.

If a girl is your priority, then things are headed down a very ugly road, especially if she does hook up with you.
 
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you want to hear something even more confusing. so i was talking to one of my girl friends about this, who lives like 2 hours away from me. i told her what school this girl went to, and she asked what grade so i told her. then she was like oh i have a really good friend that goes there...turns out her best friend is THIS girls best friend also! im trying to make sense of that, because thats just a weird coincidence or some kind of sign or something. isnt that weird?
 
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No, stop over-analyzing. Who gives a **** if she didnt put her status to away, you are headed down a bad road if you obsess about these things.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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you want over analyzing? i was pretty much right. i IMed her today, after not talking for one ****ing day, and shes like "whos this?"
 
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haha man just let this go. definetely watch the over analyzing but I could have told you that homework thing was a stupid excuse. If she wanted to talk to you she would have
 
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