Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Was she lying?

G Rambo34

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started an AIM convo with this girl. everything was good untill about 3 minutes into it she goes: i have to go to homework now. ill talk to you later. and thats it. doesnt even put an away message up.

i know i know, she could be telling the truth and i could be reading into this too much. but is this a subtle way of getting rid of me or dor she actually have homework?

(this is a girl i recently met, goes to a different school, a year younger than me, and isnt really what anyone would call a prude, and she still hasnt put an away message up)
she gave me her screen name for the record
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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619joe

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We cant judge it 100% accurately without knowing what the convo was actually like,what you talked about,etc.

Instead,dont worry about it.Who cares if she did?I mean if she did,next time dont start the convo with her.Infact ignore her a bit and maybe you pull that move on her next time.

Dont make it seem like its bothering you.If she does it constantly,ignore her.If its just maybe once,then dont stress out about it girls do that stuff sometimes its no big deal.
 

Andromax

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You worrying about this is a sign of something more serious.

You need to have many more priorities than an AIM convo with a girl whom you've just met.

If a girl is your priority, then things are headed down a very ugly road, especially if she does hook up with you.
 

G Rambo34

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you want to hear something even more confusing. so i was talking to one of my girl friends about this, who lives like 2 hours away from me. i told her what school this girl went to, and she asked what grade so i told her. then she was like oh i have a really good friend that goes there...turns out her best friend is THIS girls best friend also! im trying to make sense of that, because thats just a weird coincidence or some kind of sign or something. isnt that weird?
 

In Motion

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No, stop over-analyzing. Who gives a **** if she didnt put her status to away, you are headed down a bad road if you obsess about these things.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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G Rambo34

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you want over analyzing? i was pretty much right. i IMed her today, after not talking for one ****ing day, and shes like "whos this?"
 

mpimpin

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haha man just let this go. definetely watch the over analyzing but I could have told you that homework thing was a stupid excuse. If she wanted to talk to you she would have
 
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