"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Was she hinting me that...

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she wants to go with me?

I was speaking to a girl yesterday over the net after seein her earlier that day. We were talking and i told her me and a few buds are gonna go and see a movie, she said that she wanted to see the same movie aswell. I just carried on with the convo without inviting her to come along because she has given me an excuse the last two times i've asked her out. Though the excuses may be valid, they're excuses none the less. If you would like me to post the convo, let me kno.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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She has only said she would like to see the same movie. I wouldn't read anything else into it. She has turned you down twice... thats the hint you should be worried about - ie. move on.
 

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yea, i have. the only time we really speak nowadays is when we run into eachother and maybe once or twice a month over the net.
 

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KingBeef said:
post the conversation at once!!! :trouble:
lol, I didn't catch this post. But yo, i had her over my house today with my other two friends. We kept messin around with each other in the sense of teasing eachother, hittin each other, etc... Her comfort level is good with me, i put my hand on her leg, her chest, etc... even slapped her ass and no negative reactions.

Only reason I didn't escalate it was because my friends were there. I could kinda feel that she woulda never let it go no further because there were other people there as well tho.

But I'm not concentrating on her tho, if somethin happens then it does, i'm not puttin my mind on her.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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This is the convo from that day... We had a better convo the following day though, about her interests and what not.

Me: today's ur lucky day

Me: u have won a prize that you can't even imagine

Me: =-O u have won a ticket to see midget ******* =-O

Her: shut up

Me: lol, what u doin

Her: chillen at home and u

Me: the same

Her: ohh

Her: ayo wut u was doin outside?

Me: chillin with mike n waitin 4 casey as usual

Me: r u spooked about the whole 666 thing aswell?

Her: kinda

Me: people actin like they gonna die n ****. but then some ppl r makin fun of it. tell me how some woman was like she gonna name her baby that's gonna b born on the 6th damien, like the anti-christ in the movie

Her: ima stay in

Her: omg

Her: she crazy

Me: what u gonna stay in 4? whole ****in world gonna explode son. u gonna hide under a ****in table? lol

Her: LOL

Her: shut up *****!

Her: dont b tellin me that

Me: lol

Me: watch the buildin collapse

Her: SHUT UP

Me: i don't see it like who ppl see it, i'd see if it was 06/06/0006 then that's different. but it's 06/06/2006. aint nuffin happened in 06/06/1906 so ain't nuthin to worry bout.

Her: TRUEE

Me: but me, mike, n casey gonna go see the omen on the 6th at 6:00

Her: oh i wanted to see that too

Me: lol, watch the whole theater blow up son

Her: lmao u crazy son

Me: mike was like he gonna wear a shirt that got nuthin but sixes

Her: ohh.

Me: he goin to hell

Me: but yea, we're in there on the 6th :)

Me: i 4got to tell u, apart of ur prize, u get the once in a lifetime chance to...... BUY or MAKE me a sandwich!!!=-O And after that u will have the most amazing experience watching me eat it.

Me: ham n cheese please n thank u.

Her: your DUMB lol

Me: lol .. stop playin. where my sandwich at?

Her: shut uppp

Her: damn its startin to thunder and ****

Me: u betta hurry up if u buyin it cause it's startin to rain nigga. i don't want my sandwich to get wet

Her: anyWAYS

Me: or just make it in the crib, n i'll pick it up.

Her: riiiiiiiiiiiight

Me: lol, u shoulda been chillin with us on monday

Her: word i wasnt even home

Her: but what ya do ?

Me: it was rainin like a b*tch n we was slidin down the slide ne ****, doin mad jackass **** as usual. but it was fun. n it looked like a tornado was about to form in front of the buildin. where did u go?

Her: that day i was coming back from l.i

Her: O **** . U HEARD THAT ?

Me: o i c, i saw that ****

Her: Word

Me: i'm right next to the ****in window..

Her: it will b funny if there was a BLACK OUT

Me: STREAAAAAKING TIME!!!

Her: LMAOO

Me: yea nigga, that's when we tuck our nuts n run!

Me: u heard that we're supposed to get hit with a hurricane?

Her: UH niigga??? Nahh man chill wit that

Her: FORREAL ?

Me: yea, in august

Her: ooh wow

Me: my ass... will be in austrailia... farr away from that ****. n i'll be laughin while new york city sinks

Her: **** YOU

Me: lol, die slow *****

Her: lmaoo
 

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lmao good conver

i enjoyed that
 

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sexy_kuta said:
lmao good conver

i enjoyed that
thanks. all of our convos are great. They're either funny or me finding out more about her. Thats why when we're around each other we always have a good time. Today was pretty cool, it probably woulda went further if my friends weren't there but i'm satisfied since i don't expect much from her.
 

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Actions speak louder than words, if she were truly interested in you she'd go out with you. One on One.
 

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Hitman10000 said:
Actions speak louder than words, if she were truly interested in you she'd go out with you. One on One.
yea, which is why i don't expect much from her other than a good convo every now n then.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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She's bi-sexual with a girlfriend. they've been together for 2 years now... go figure.
 
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