ilikereddit99
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This is my first post,
There was this girl who I was interested in. We'd known each other for more than 6 months and she was a really good friend. She's friendly, flirty, and super nice. I wasn't interested in her at first because I was seeing someone else and she knew that. Only couple months ago, I'd developed interests for her and we'd started flirting with each other. We teased a lot during class and made fun of each other all the time. We enjoyed our own company.I'm a picky guy so I try to get to know the girl a bit more before asking her out.
After a few weeks of getting to know her during class. I asked her out on a date in person, she didn't give me an answer. I was ok with it and let it do. We went back to flirting again and pretended nothing happened. I wasn't going to ask her out the 2nd time because I kinda guessed she wasn't interested in me after she didn't give me answer to my question. However, she was giving out hints like places she wanted to try, bars she wanted to go to and she was making the signs pretty obvious.
Two weeks later, I asked her out again, she said "yes" immediately. Later on the day that I asked her out, she texted me and said she had to cancel our date. She gave no reason or offered to reschedule. I texted "ok" back. I went NC. Three weeks later, she snapchatted me a bunch of times a day but the snaps weren't just for me. The captions were general, maybe she wanted to start a streak or something so I ignored them and blocked her. Since then there has been no contact between us and it's been more than 2 months.
What should I do the next time I run into her? We go to the same uni.
There was this girl who I was interested in. We'd known each other for more than 6 months and she was a really good friend. She's friendly, flirty, and super nice. I wasn't interested in her at first because I was seeing someone else and she knew that. Only couple months ago, I'd developed interests for her and we'd started flirting with each other. We teased a lot during class and made fun of each other all the time. We enjoyed our own company.I'm a picky guy so I try to get to know the girl a bit more before asking her out.
After a few weeks of getting to know her during class. I asked her out on a date in person, she didn't give me an answer. I was ok with it and let it do. We went back to flirting again and pretended nothing happened. I wasn't going to ask her out the 2nd time because I kinda guessed she wasn't interested in me after she didn't give me answer to my question. However, she was giving out hints like places she wanted to try, bars she wanted to go to and she was making the signs pretty obvious.
Two weeks later, I asked her out again, she said "yes" immediately. Later on the day that I asked her out, she texted me and said she had to cancel our date. She gave no reason or offered to reschedule. I texted "ok" back. I went NC. Three weeks later, she snapchatted me a bunch of times a day but the snaps weren't just for me. The captions were general, maybe she wanted to start a streak or something so I ignored them and blocked her. Since then there has been no contact between us and it's been more than 2 months.
What should I do the next time I run into her? We go to the same uni.
