Was she baiting me?

[Jon55]

So an ex-girlfriend of mine is back in town from school and a bunch of us were hanging out the other night. She was sending me mixed signals all night. But then she out of no where told me she was looking through some old photos and came across our Prom night together and how we looked so young (said with a smile). I didn't really know what to say to this, so I kinda just said 'yeah that was a really fun night'.


Thinking back now, I'm starting to wonder...was she baiting me? Was she trying to get me to go down memory lane with her? To talk about that night and the feelings we both felt at the time? Perhaps to spark an old flame we had with each other? Keep in mind she has a bf who she's been with a long time, although has cheated (drunk make out session(s)) on him before.


This probably sounds kinda outlandish but I can be pretty blind at seeing the signs sometimes, so I just want to be sure for future reference.

 

[John-467]

Jon signs of what? I don't want to be rude, but try to take someting out of what I'm about to say.

Why do you spend so much time analyzing a woman's moves and words?

Sometimes guys act as if the girl in question, is the only damned girl in this marketplace, and if they don't properly win this girl then they are doomed.

It's not that serious brother. Really it's not.

I can already tell what type of girl this is brother:

1. She's a complete freak
- She parties a good amount, gets drunk, and has one night stands. Trust me, she's been fvcked good.

2. She's not a great relationship partner
- Not every girl is great for relationships, especially in today's marketplace, a lot of women are more suited for great fvck partners than relationship partners.

I believe with this girl, you should spend more time having fun, being openly sexual, and just freaking with her while you all are together and in town. Now I would also suspect that this girl is one of those "SHYT STARTERS" so you might want to be careful because if you hit it, she might tell her boyfriend and then he wants to decide to kick your azz out of ALLLLLLLL the other guys she's already fvcked.

So in my opinion, I just wouldn't have any relations with her at all. When you tend to understand your value as a man, a great lover, a great relationship partner, and a great fvck partner, you tend to not spend much TIME with the girls that won't lead to great fvck partners or that won't lead to quality relationships.

The marketplace is huge and growing, women are more bored and horny today than ever.....so it's very delusional to sit around and analyze one girl this much. Try to obtain experience, that will help you size up different people more quickly, so you can make a more informed decison on if I should stay, or if I should go.

With the potential problems this girl is likely to cause, I just would go. There's way to many bored and horney women in your area to spend this high amount of time on an unprofitable opportunity.

-DJF

 

[Someone Much cooler]

John-467 you save me a whole lotta typing. what this man said. Plus if she is a ho why you tryin to be wit her....a night of fun can become a life time of AIDS